what is the most important when you are going fishing ? more important then the gear? more important then your skill? you need to know where the fish might be. - then you need to patently bait them, and when they bite, you need to real them in. - are you done fishing yet? no you have to beat them to death, and then you need to clean them. after that you can cook them and they will nourish you and make you stronger.
mistakes are just like that - first and most important you need to find them, then you have to patiently work on them, use all your tools right, real them in, beat them to death, clean them up and then ? then they make you stronger !
we should welcome the recognition of a mistake as a welcome gift, its the door that opens to progress.